Corsage Guidelines for a Bridal Shower

Ensure the bride remains the only honored guest at her bridal shower.

For party planners with good intentions, organizing a bridal shower can feel overwhelming because of the many etiquette rules to keep in mind. The primary purpose of the gathering is to help the bride get ready for her wedding day and the life changes that follow. While wedding flowers come with their own set of conventions, a corsage is not required for a bridal shower, whether traditional or contemporary.

A Sentimental Token

If the bride-to-be is greeted with a lovely corsage when she arrives at her shower, it can make her feel special and ready for a few hours in the spotlight. However, caution is needed: if the maid of honor decides to do this, the guest of honor should be the sole guest wearing the floral piece. Giving corsages to other bridesmaids or the bride's family might make them stand out and upset other guests with good intentions.

Expenses

Customarily, the maid of honor organizes the bridal shower and handles most of the costs, which includes selecting and buying the bride's corsage. The bridesmaid can decide, but in some situations, the bride's family may assist in choosing the party venue and sending invitations; however, requesting help with expenses is not acceptable.

Selecting an Appropriate Corsage

Give it significance. Don't choose a prom-style design just because it appears attractive. Instead, plan in advance and pick an elegantly-themed corsage that captures the bride's personality. Think about meeting with a florist beforehand to discuss options using the bride's favorite flower or blooms from the first bouquet her fiance gave her. A corsage can be worn on the collar, the wrist, or in the hair. Choose one that fits the bride and her preferences best. A skilled florist can assist in making something fashionable yet suitable.

Preparation and Upkeep

It is bad etiquette to give the bride a corsage that looks wilted or dull. Schedule the corsage pickup for the night before or the morning of the shower, depending on when the party takes place. Handle the arrangement properly by storing it in a shaded box during transport and then in the refrigerator at home. Include a moistened cotton ball with the corsage and minimize handling until it is given to the bride. For corsages containing orchids, keep them out of the fridge and place them in a glass of cool water instead.